1. Don't get into a relationship for at least the first
month or two of college.
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“You’ll end up spending a lot of time focusing your
significant other, and might miss out on college’s
other opportunities and friendships!”
Submitted by Isabel Lane, Facebook
2. Don’t do the long-distance thing (unless you're
positive that your heart is in it).
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“Every situation is different. One couple I knew
actually ended up getting married, but they only saw
each other once a year for, like, eight years.”
Submitted by sarahelizabethl499500690
3. If you and your high school boo end up at the
same college, expect some changes in your
relationship.
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“College brings new experiences, and opportunities
for people to change. Sometimes that can be a good
thing!”
Submitted by exikaylinec
4. No matter what, don't let your relationship hold
you back. College is YOURS to enjoy.
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“If your S.O. is trying to stop you from experiences
you want to try (no, not hooking up — think more like
studying abroad), don’t stick around!”
Submitted by annakopsky
5. If you have any control over it, avoid dating anyone
who lives in your building.
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“If there’s a chance you’ll see that person frequently,
it will be difficult AF to get over the relationship if it
ends badly.”
Submitted by lexik45f38ce76
6. Don't disconnect from the world the moment you
start dating someone.
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“Focus on friendships — don’t take college romantic
relationships too seriously.”
Submitted by cheerfulk
7. You don't have to find ~the one~.
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“Don’t feel like college is when you need to find the
person to spend your life with. If it happens, great. If
not, that’s great too!”
Submitted by Miranda Coker, Facebook
8. If your relationship isn't making you happy, don't
waste your time with it. Relationships are supposed
to make you happy.
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“If it feels like you’re constantly trying to fix things or
make yourself fit with another person, end it!”
Submitted by Torie Ellen, Facebook
9. But in all seriousness, if your mental health is at
stake because of your relationship, seek help.
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“Remember you’re not alone. Many of us have ended
up feeling awful as a result of a college relationship,
but never feel afraid to confide, get guidance, and
treat yo’self!”
Submitted by Roby Johnson, Facebook
10. Don’t throw away love for college hookups.
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“If you’re sure about someone, stay with that one
person.”
Submitted by amandaf417529f59
11. It's perfectly OK to not text the person you're
dating 24/7. Enjoy life IRL!
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“You might have done that in high school, but in
college, it’s not sweet anymore — it’s kind of
irritating. A few times a day is plenty.”
Submitted by Laura Katherine Smith, Facebook
12. And be very careful when drunk-texting that
person you're on and off with.
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“I wish someone would have warned me to avoid
drunken text conversations with someone I hooked
up with, because they rarely ended well.”
Submitted by Maci Peterson, Facebook
13. Be smart and safe when it comes to sex (!!!).
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“This cannot be stressed enough. Make it your golden
rule.”
Submitted by TechnicallyCorrect
14. But also, if you're a virgin, it's 100% OK to stay
that way throughout college.
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“Your sex life is literally no one else’s business.”
Submitted by agarcia2929
15. Hookups have a different effect on everyone.
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“Be prepared for the person from *that* night to
either reach out, or completely ghost. There are
people who will sleep with you and then only text you
for homework answers.”
Submitted by reneelynnt
16. A failed relationship is not a death sentence for
your love life or general happiness. Grab some pizza
and bask in your singleness.
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“Find time to find yourself.”
Submitted by TechnicallyCorrect
17. Don't be afraid to make mistakes and learn from
them.
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“Fall hard and learn that if you have to get up, there
will be new opportunities.”
Submitted by stefanieannb2
18. Don't be afraid to just GO for it. Life's too short.
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“This is 2015 — just ask that person you’ve had your
eye on to hang out!”
Submitted by victoriagraceg
19. Learn more about what kind of relationships work
for you. The heart wants what it wants.
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“Experiment isn’t the word I’m looking for, but don’t
be afraid to try new things.”
Submitted by c10v3r
20. Make sure that you love YOURSELF before starting
a relationship.
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“If you can love yourself single, you’ll learn what you
like, and you’re less likely to settle for the first
sleazebag who comes along.”
Submitted by Katie Russell, Facebook
21. And, most importantly, you don't have to date at
all, if you're not actually into anyone.
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“Don’t just date because others are dating; date if
you’re seriously into someone!
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